1.0Salt Spring Unitarianshttps://unitariancongregation.org/saltspringAmanda Tarlinghttps://unitariancongregation.org/saltspring/author/atarling/rich600338<blockquote class="wp-embedded-content" data-secret="rhIaC4uvtw"><a href="https://unitariancongregation.org/saltspring/services/stefa-katamay-care-with-our-words/">Stefa Katamay “Care with our words”</a></blockquote><iframe sandbox="allow-scripts" security="restricted" src="https://unitariancongregation.org/saltspring/services/stefa-katamay-care-with-our-words/embed/#?secret=rhIaC4uvtw" width="600" height="338" title="“Stefa Katamay “Care with our words”” — Salt Spring Unitarians" data-secret="rhIaC4uvtw" frameborder="0" marginwidth="0" marginheight="0" scrolling="no" class="wp-embedded-content"></iframe><script> /*! This file is auto-generated */ !function(d,l){"use strict";l.querySelector&&d.addEventListener&&"undefined"!=typeof URL&&(d.wp=d.wp||{},d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage||(d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage=function(e){var t=e.data;if((t||t.secret||t.message||t.value)&&!/[^a-zA-Z0-9]/.test(t.secret)){for(var s,r,n,a=l.querySelectorAll('iframe[data-secret="'+t.secret+'"]'),o=l.querySelectorAll('blockquote[data-secret="'+t.secret+'"]'),c=new RegExp("^https?:$","i"),i=0;i<o.length;i++)o[i].style.display="none";for(i=0;i<a.length;i++)s=a[i],e.source===s.contentWindow&&(s.removeAttribute("style"),"height"===t.message?(1e3<(r=parseInt(t.value,10))?r=1e3:~~r<200&&(r=200),s.height=r):"link"===t.message&&(r=new URL(s.getAttribute("src")),n=new URL(t.value),c.test(n.protocol))&&n.host===r.host&&l.activeElement===s&&(d.top.location.href=t.value))}},d.addEventListener("message",d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage,!1),l.addEventListener("DOMContentLoaded",function(){for(var e,t,s=l.querySelectorAll("iframe.wp-embedded-content"),r=0;r<s.length;r++)(t=(e=s[r]).getAttribute("data-secret"))||(t=Math.random().toString(36).substring(2,12),e.src+="#?secret="+t,e.setAttribute("data-secret",t)),e.contentWindow.postMessage({message:"ready",secret:t},"*")},!1)))}(window,document); //# sourceURL=https://unitariancongregation.org/saltspring/wp-includes/js/wp-embed.min.js </script> Making assumptions is part of human nature. Informed by our experiences and influences our assumptions are both useful and they get in our way. Our words can either reflect or bypass our assumptions. Care with our words, specifically how we ask questions, can shift our views, and aid in communicating or developing compassion. We can … Continue reading